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Planning a child, or have one already?  Pregnancy and Parenting is not as easy as it looks!  Find some helpful information here or join our message board to connect with other women!  

 

 
Want To Get Pregnant?
 Charting for Conceiving
By Melissa
 
 
Charting for conceiving can be very simple and very informative way towards pregnancy! Charting is a great way to really get to know your body. All you need is a Basal Body Temperature thermometer and a charting program! Fertility Friend offers a very simple and easy to use charting program online (FertilityFriend.com). In order to get accurate results from charting/temping, you must take your temperature every morning around the same time, after at least three consecutive hours of sleep. After you get your temperature for that day, you plot it on your chart. Fertility Friend will pinpoint your ovulation day for you, about three days after you have ovulated. Temping will not tell you when you are about to ovulate, only that you have ovulated. Your temperature will usually dip down lower on your ovulation day, then jump up the day after. After you have plotted at least three temperatures that have stayed up, Fertility Friend will give you your ovulation day. Most people find that using Ovulation Prediction Kits along with temping/charting is the most efficient way to tell when you ovulate! We have a charting forum here on Simply4Women.com, so...if you are a charter or if you would like to become one, please feel free to join us there!
 
Maltreatment of Children!  Be an Advocate! 
by Mandy
 
Listen to these facts as reported by Child Protective Services:
 
3,503,000 children were reported and investigated in 2005 for maltreatment and neglect.
 
872,000 of those were FOUNDED as neglect or maltreatment of a child!
 
62.4 % experienced neglect
17.5% were physically abused
9.7% were sexually abused
7.0% were psychologically maltreated
2.1% were medically neglected
 
These numbers are outrageous.  What is the world turning into?  Children are a gift.  They should not be treated as such.
 
What can you do?  This is quite simple, if you experience or witness abuse of any kind, do not let it continue.  Stop the violence!  Report it to the police or call a women's shelter or information center for help.  When you report a person for abuse, you never have to give your name. 
 
Save a child.  Save a life!
 
 
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Raising A Child Who Has ADHD

A Parents Perspective

by Angie

 

I have found that being a mother is the hardest thing a person can do, it's harder than any other job. But I have also found that raising a child who needs special or more attention is even harder.
My son Tyler was diagnosed with ADHD when he was 5 years old, he is now almost 10. It's been a long, stressful 5 years. I was a single mother for the first few years so I did it all on my own and many times I wanted to throw the towel in and quit. We had tried numerous different medications, only to find out they were causing side effects such as weight loss, not being able to sleep, to no appetite at all. Just recently the medication he had been on for 3 years caused him to have tics, so we had to stop all meds ASAP, it was awful!
Through the years I have had to make special arrangements for Tyler, we had to get an IEP for school, and he is punished differently than his siblings, as he doesn't always understand what he is or has done wrong. He struggles in school and at home. To raise a child with ADHD you need to have 100% patience, which I have to admit, I don't always have.
It is very difficult and trying at times.
Raising a child who is ADHD requires a lot of patience, love and understanding.